I’d like to give you some earthshatteringly brilliant advice that you haven’t previously considered, but I very much like your take on things. At which point, you can get back online to find a guy who really DOES want to commit to you.Keep your profile up, give him a few more weeks to step up to the plate, and go with “Since we’re exclusive now, does that mean I should take my profile down? And for your own sake, please check out Finding the One Online to guide you through every step of the process.He’s responsible for all the bills and monthly obligations while providing me anything I want without hesitation — even if it means he goes without. My opinion matters and he always asks what I think or how I feel.Having a husband like this has taught me to want very little as it’s far more important to me that he lives a stress free life and never goes without anything. I don’t have to ask his ‘permission’ to do anything, nor does he ask mine.” Or will bringing it up at all make me seem needy and jealous? It’s like making a New Years resolution to do cardio, but refusing to ever set foot in the gym. Maybe this guy needs a dictionary to clarify the term “exclusive,” but, by pretty much any standard, “exclusive” doesn’t mean logging onto Match to peruse other women. You want to know how the concept of “mirroring” (seen in “Why He Disappeared”) plays into online dating. If he emails you immediately, you email him back immediately. If he asks for your phone number, give it to him with a time to call.Which is why I’m very comfortable redefining your relationship, Vanessa as “non-exclusive.” You’re just seeing a guy who’s making grand proclamations that you want to hear. If he follows up for a second date and you’re interested, accept.Some even ‘warned’ me before making the decision to get married.
Those are not mere allegations - we know what we say because we understand how thrilling all our xxx movies are!I’ve been dating a guy online for a month, and he brought up the idea of being exclusive, to which I agreed.At what point should I take down my dating profile?I was thinking of giving it a few weeks and if it doesn’t come up, to say something along the lines of “Since we’re exclusive now does that mean I should take my profile down?” versus “I’ve noticed you still have your profile up, are you dating other people?
And, apparently, what HE wants to do is promise exclusivity to you while continuing to look for other women online.