Want to avoid the disappointments and aggravation of online dating? Pick the wrong ones and you'll waste time and energy, occasionally suffering wipe-outs that can leave you dazed, distracted and dispirited when the right man or wave comes along.Girlfriends, you know what I'm talking about: the "no-show" flakes, the chronic complainers, the promising first couple of dates that lead nowhere? Signing up for online dating can be a little like learning to surf. Fortunately, men will signal their intentions and level of interest, usually in their very first e-mail. My goal for the women I coach is to go from receiving a few dozen e-mails a month to a few hundred, at which point weeding out the unsuitable and the un-serious becomes of paramount importance.All signs for me point to player, but I don't want to push away a good guy if I'm wrong. Thanks in advance I recently met a man online who lives 9 hours from me and already wants to drive to see me, it's been less than a week.
You certainly don't whistle back -- or go and start a conversation! It signals ambivalence and/or arrogance -- not decisiveness and determination.
There's millions of guys out there you can establish that amount of communication with.
No reason to get stuck, later, when you have a bad feeling so early on.
There should only be good feelings so early in a relationship.
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