Types of guys to avoid dating Hey, life is too short to date guys you don’t like.
So here, we cut to the chase and give you a definitive list of the types of men you shouldn’t date.
He has no hobby *except for maybe video games*, skills, aspirations, or future. [Read: 21 big signs of emotional abuse you may be overlooking] #5 The Alpha Jerk.
After that, he’ll make demands while expecting you to unconditionally and unquestioningly provide for him. Unlike the free-loader, this guy will actually pay… He’s the type who will ask you out on a date, but then suggest you go Dutch and may even take out a calculator for it.
In fact, you should totally avoid them like a plague. He can be charming, brooding, mysterious, friendly, and the life of the party. The only problem is that he’s afraid of commitment.
There’s a part of you that wants to change him, that wants to be the one to be able to allay his reservations about it, but he says he’s just happy the way you both are. Well, if that’s not what you want, then it’s time to get off at the next stop.
You can’t expect him to buy you flowers, or anything for that matter.
It’s not that he can’t afford to take you to dinner and a movie, he’s just cheap. He cares way too much about how he looks, his reputation, and being the center of the universe. He can be attractive, well-mannered, successful—an actual eligible bachelor.
It helps you find out just what you like and don’t like in potential mates and relationships.