Now, it's time to starting blowing up every woman's inbox. "We know this line is effective because we heard some meathead from that one pickup site say it. Then, we finally get back some messages by not-so-engaged (and also slightly pissed off) women. Understanding why we think how we do can empower us to understand what is actually happening.
These assumptions about women are merely that: assumptions.
Now that we really understand what could be happening, we can adjust our strategies to match the real needs of the women we are interested in.
Now, as I mentioned before, you will message plenty of women and still get no reply. Our goal, though, should be to understand how we can attract more like-minded women than we were before. If you message 100 women with a copied script and only get five replies, then you're definitely doing something wrong. Message only 25 women with whom you actually feel you have a lot in common.
After we conducted a field survey consisting of 25 different, highly-engaged women from the online dating world, the results were very clear. She finally finds a decent guy who seems alright, so she starts to message him exclusively. We want to show them a man not only capable of keeping a relationship, but also a guy their mom or dad would love for them to be with.
We got past the initial responses and really dug into the reality of the situation. All the messages that come in while she's talking to him just get pushed to the side and never read. Guys, a lot is going on in that story, and we definitely have heard it more than once before. You need to start attracting women who are looking for something more than just meeting random guys.
I will also provide tested strategies to help you break through the rut.
It's the only picture we have up, and we have our favorite drink in our hand.
Even better, since the chick probably wants to see our body, we have our shirt pulled up to show our "not-so-defined" abs as well. Because we are nice guys pretending to be cool to get women. We're consistently blasting out roughly 100 different messages by copying and pasting the same, "Hey beautiful, what's up? Yes, we get the occasional message back, but we still really struggle to get anything decent. Our typical conclusion is she's a player or into the "bad boys" who are more ripped than we are.
If your profile sounded like the guy's above from the party, then you are required to follow the next steps if you ever want to increase your chances of meeting more women.
Even if that profile doesn't sound like you, these tips are still highly recommended for you to check out.
Below, I will be outlining why women aren't writing you back when you message them, and how I broke through the rejection.