Most of us are ill-equipped to create a successful relationship.In therapy we can explore those patterns and create some healing so you don’t become so activated/ triggered in future relationships. (Somatic Experiencing-based attachment repair program), groundbreaking approach that integrates interpersonal neurobiology and adult attachment theory.It focuses on early Attachment styles and how they manifest in adult personal relationships of all kinds – friends, family and romantic partners or spouses.By the practical application of Somatic Experiencing® principles, techniques and corrective experiences we alleviate stuck attachment patterns.As you explore and correct your own attachment history, you can move towards secure attachment and become more equipped for healthier and happier relationships. D (Healing Relational Trauma), offers a way to embrace two often separate worlds of knowing: the science of early attachment relationships and the practice of healing within an EMDR framework.Eye-movement desensitization and reprocessing which is more widely known as EMDR, is a powerful tool for catalyzing integration for individuals who have experienced non-secure attachment and developmental trauma.This approach heals the attachment wounds and the damage sustained from neglect or poor parenting in early childhood.For developmental trauma to happen, not catastrophic events have to happen. No family can attend to all members needs, so think of it as a lack of vitamins.
•Do you feel mistreated or neglected by your partner but you stay with him/her because you “love” him/her?Extreme independence or loneliness is only a maladaptive survival strategy.That is why most of the time reading books and learning skills only work for a short period of time.(Amir, 2010, attached) The good news is that therapy can help.Professional help can provide you the understanding you need to figure out your own role and triggers in relationships.
Many people think that because they weren’t physically being hit or abandoned at an orphanage door, they shouldn’t have any problems.