Little did she know, we were working with Marco whose biggest dream was the same as hers.
FYI - Cysgender means the person identifies with the sex they were assigned at birth.
Transgender means the person does not identify with the sex they were assigned at birth.
For example, a person we’ve worked with was assigned a male sex at birth and identifies with the female gender - so they’d be considered a transgender female.“I like to get dressed up in a skirt and heels a few times a week just because it feels good.”transgender male“I’m very math and science-minded, which makes it difficult to relate to potential partners.”cysgender female“I feel like I don’t have enough energy to meet the sexual needs of a partner.”cysgender male“Ever since childhood I have obsessed over having a dream wedding and kids.”cysgender male“I feel like I don’t have enough energy to meet the sexual needs of a partner.”cysgender male“I love to go out dancing with friends and want a partner who likes to dance.”cysgender male“I cannot multi-task for the life of me.”cysgender female“I don’t have any kind of sex trauma - and I don’t really like sex.”cysgender male“I’ve had body image issues and eating disorders throughout my whole life.”cysgender male“I’m very wishy-washy and have a hard time making decisions.”cysgender male“I’m a full-time parent.”cysgender male“I tend to go all-in with new relationships, claiming that they’re ‘the one’ very early on.”cysgender male“I don't want to be constantly processing things and talking about feelings.”cysgender female“I don’t want to have kids.”cysgender female“My partner has childhood sexual trauma, and I don't know how to help them feel more comfortable in bed with me.”cysgender female“I climax too quickly for most partners.”cysgender female“I’m getting facial resurfacing treatments to look younger.”cysgender male“I work as an auto-mechanic, am married to a woman, and am the mother of three.”transgender female“I like to have multiple partners.”cysgender female Did your guesses match up? The reason I'm writing this article is because we’ve found that many people who hold stereotypes about men and women have a hard time starting relationships and/or maintaining them.
And one reason for that is that they are not considering their partner or in their unique wholeness.
They have a preconceived notion of how each sex acts, thinks, and feels - and in turn, create or follow rules in courtship as if that will better their chances.
In her dating life, she would steer clear from having any conversations of wanting marriage and children.