I would say a good rule is to never assume your guy knows the things he’s “supposed” to know or “should” know without you telling him. Now, I want to make a point here because this is usually the place where jaded women will say, “Of course not! ” To that point, guys know plenty and we really do our best. what made our last girlfriend happy sometimes is to give us clues that are extremely visible-from-space obvious.And no, “clues” to a guy does not include a facial expression, voice tone or some kind of hint. Bottom line: If you show your boyfriend exactly how to make you happy, he will do his best to do it.
It makes me feel unloved but I don’t know how to let him know that without him getting mad.
We’ve already had sex and I think we took it way too fast.
He says he wants to be with me forever and that he loves me- I mean, could see us being like that but does he really mean it or is he just saying what he thinks I want to hear?
When I say address it, I don’t necessarily mean talking it out.
Sometimes that’s the best way to go and I’ll share my thoughts on that in a moment, but sometimes half the issue is how you feel about it and think about it.
Let me tell you, nothing makes me angrier faster than having a woman tell me I “always” do something (whatever it is) wrong or that I “never” do something (whatever it is) right.