You must go the extra length to find out how they really feel.Depending on your mate (if you’re a female), your Japanese husband may expect you to quit your job and become a house wife should you get married.Rule (men): If your Japanese girl lets you sleep over at her house while you are still only friends she may be a whore.Warning: Japanese men are known to be controlling and like subservient women.So if you are one of those types who wants to have a child farm then you’ll have to work that out with your partner.It is also not uncommon for Japanese to not even have children. If you’ve made it this far then you are to be commended for your endurance and apparent saint like qualities in tolerating and understanding your partner.Therefore, for all foreigners, men and women, who seek to find love (and by that we don’t mean one night stands, as you don’t need vocular skills in order to pull off that achievement) you will either have to learn Japanese or you’ll have to find a partner who is capable of speaking good English, and those are few and far between. You can also search for ‘language exchange’ or ‘conversation exchange’ to find groups of foreigners and Japanese who meet together to chat and work on their language skills. Now you’ve not only selected out people who probably speak some level of English, but people who also are interested in foreigners!
Do you want a one night stand or something more meaningful. Rule: If your Japanese person of interest (be it male or female) is rather attractive and dresses very stylishly, or a just little bit sexy or is the least bit ‘touchy feely’, then there is a very very good chance that he or she is ‘loose’ and is only looking for some casual sex.It takes a very understanding, determined and giving person to be able to bridge the gap between these to very different societies; and indeed there is MUCH more to understand and learn that was listed in this article.Consider this text as a collection warnings, focusing on the difficulties of said relationships.Warning: Japanese women are notorious for lying, concealing their real feelings and tolerating relationships which they are not happy to be in, which then leads to cheating (this is also true of Japanese men).This fear of speaking up is part of their cultural upbringing.
Warning: If your partner (Japanese male) insists (emphasis on insists) on not using a condom, be warned that he is a player. Japanese girls are notoriously easy (for various reasons including the cultural subservience to men), and if you put enough pressure on them they will give it up.