Men do not need someone to control and mother them and when this happens it is an instant turn-off.
Nor do men want a woman who is at all needy or desperate for him to be the source of her happiness.
This type of energy makes him desire to connect with her so that he wants more and more of her time. Attraction: Men are attracted to what they cannot control or predict.
This draws him to you because your emotions will not be dictated by everything he does or doesn't do.There was no "before" prior to the creation of the triune universe of time, space, and mass/energy.Yet even more amazing (and the universe is amazing) is the historic fact that the Creator-God, after purposefully creating the time-space-matter universe, chose to enter it in the God-human person of Jesus Christ—for the sole purpose of providing a means by which humanity could have a personal relationship with the Creator."And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth” (John ). They really are not that confusing but will only commit to a woman who is not out to control him with man-management.
When communicating with a man do your best to create a positive emotional environment.