The first thing you need to know is that learning how to text a girl is not like learning math. Most guys won’t bother reading a post like this, and so you’ll be way ahead of them and have an unfair advantage.
In other words, when you learn that 1 1 = 2, you don’t need to learn anything else to understand it better. Texting is more like learning how to speak another language, or play an instrument, or learning a sport. With that said, let’s dive into the five principles of texting.
Don’t think of texting as a way of exchanging data, think of it as a way of giving her feelings (which she then associates with you).
Principle #3 – Metal is easier to bend when it’s red hot – Let’s say you want to bend a metal pipe.
Mistake #2 – Waiting too long to invite her out and set up the date – The main reason you get a girl’s number is because you’re not able to take her out on a date right then and there when you meet her. The longer you wait to ask her out, she more chance she has to forget about you.
Remember, she’s on social media all day long and also has other guys asking her out. C = Close – This is what you should start with when you first get her number.
Principle #4 – Always be closing – After you meet her, you should be leading the interaction forward toward some kind of relationship (either romantic or just sexual). Keep in mind that you need to get her out on a real date and take the steps toward beginning a relationship and getting physical together.
Principle #5 – Master the High-Status Filter – Guys often lose their chances with a woman because they put too much importance (and pressure) on that one girl.
Before long, she loses interest, starts replying less and less, and then just stops replying altogether.
It makes sense to heat the pipe up first so it bends easily, right?
Well the same thing applies to her emotions and decision making process.
Principle #1 – You must think about things from her viewpoint – You probably don’t realize what the daily reality of an attractive girl is.
She only has so much available attention, and everyone wants a piece of it. I means that she’s not going to respond to your texts just because you want her to.
You still have to capture her attention and get her out on a date.