----- As a coach, I encourage women to "know their brand" of femininity.
I am not going back to look at the 100 men who claim they "want to meet me." I will respond to men who actually take the time to write more than "Hi," and introduce themselves as possible suitors.
Look, we do want to see your hot bod, but get a friend to take a few pix at the gym or a sporting event. We really don't want to think about what went on in there before or after you took the picture. Write more than a paragraph if you actually want a date. But if you check the box "wants a relationship" and then don't take the time and effort to write a decent profile, the message we receive is: "I'm looking for a hookup" and "I use love to get sex." Actually, that last part is giving you too much credit -- it would require self-awareness. Sure, it works at a party; we're face-to-face, making eye contact. Take off your sunglasses and let us see the real you. We're not in college anymore and this isn't a frat. Stop putting up pix of you with the gaggle of girls you were hanging out with during your drunken escapades. Hey, let's face it: You're the consistent factor in all your relationships. There's nothing worse than showing up and discovering that I can't even recognize you in the restaurant.
We can feel or not feel the chemistry, and usually go right into a conversation about what's happening where we are. With just "Hi," I have to assume you're disinterested, bored, or simply inarticulate.
I love to go out for a morning walk as it keeps me active and fresh the whole day. My passion runs even deeper than just cooking as I am also a dancer who is looking for the perfect partner to salsa with.
Being a mother does not stop me from having fun and enjoying life. I am looking for a dating partner who is creative like me andwho is definitely honest.”Judy’s the name and baking’s my claim to fame. They say that cooking is a lot like chemistry, and that is exactly what I am looking for. As Harriet Van Horne puts it, “Cooking is like making love, you do it well, or you do not do it all.” I am hoping to complete the recipe of my perfect life with the best ingredients out there – love, happiness, sincerity, commitment and a hell lot of fun!
I’m searching for my Mona Lisa who I’m sure is waiting out there in The Starry Night looking for me as I am for her.“I am Jackson from Australia.
Other than just being an awesome, loving and super fun person to be with, I’m also an adventurist. I want someone creative and caring, if you think you can handle a night out with a woman who can dance to dazzle and can keep you wanting more, drop me a line and leave the rest to destiny.“Hey this is Peter!
Yet true love also still eludes many of us involved in online dating. If we were out in the real world, you'd ask (I hope). Not because women who pole dance aren't marriage-minded, but because like it or not, we all have some social norms and stereotypes to which we ascribe.
One of the biggest advantages these sites supposedly offer is volume. Just because we're online doesn't mean the rules are different. (Like the fact that most men probably don't want to marry a woman whose pole-dancing pix are all over Zoosk). I'm going to make assumptions about your manhood (so to speak) from everything you do (or don't) do online.
Bad pictures, poorly written profiles, and misleading information make it frustrating or annoying to sort effectively. If you want to be a man in your online dating profile and truly use the site(s) to attract the woman of your dreams, here are some suggestions. Yes, some idiot actually sent that to me as a text.
For example, the guy who "wants a relationship" but by all other factors in his profile is clearly looking for a hookup. Actually, even if you're on the site just to date, trust me, gentlemen, you'll have better results if you make these few minor adjustments: 1.
Stop taking half-naked photos of yourself in the bathroom mirror. And seeing a toilet, dirty shower, and you standing in a 4' x 6' box is mos def not a turn on. Your profile should not have a disclaimer about what you don't want.