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Open Your Mind, And Your Heart There’s one thing that all fatties have in common; we’ve been beaten down. Are you struggling with body confidence and self esteem?
I started dating when I was 17, after years of being told that no man would ever want to be with me because I was fat. Since then, dating as a plus size woman has always been complicated. But how do you deal with the whole weight thing on online dating sites? I’ve had lots of followers get in touch in recent times, asking for advice on how to be honest about their bodies online. Men in particular, who are so used to super self conscious women, find self loving women refreshing and sexy. But you can say something like, ‘my name is Emma and I’m a self confessed chubby chick’, or ‘cutie with a booty’, or ‘plus size and proud’. It’s made you feel worthless, so of course you’re angry. This seems to be a challenge that many fat girls face. Sell Your Self Love Believe it or not, people are attracted to people who love themselves. You don’t gave to say ‘my name is Emma and I have a beautiful fat body’. We often date from a scarcity mentality, presuming that most men do not date plus size women.I’m also particularly suspicious, often having been cornered into a relationship that started out ok but then took a turn for the absurdly casual (“Oh, ok, so don’t want to plan anything ever, you just want to see what happens and if I happen to be around and you happen to be around and we happen to want to hang out in my bed then maybe let’s text each other with no more than 30 minutes notice? I would often find myself frustrated, and in response I did what a lot of women do: adjust my expectations and my behavior in order to accommodate the demands and expectations of my potential dates.
I’m a psychotherapist and dating coach and I help plus size women have the dating life they deserve. At the time I was stoked that we’d be collaborating – my Babecamp and her Curvy Cupid Course were about to make a power baby.