So if you're thinking about getting together with someone younger, don't listen to anyone who uses words like "cougar," "cradle robber," or "Samantha Jones;" instead, consider the five points below.
There are great things about dating younger women, and very bad things.
Also, younger men tend to put up with WAY more drama than older guys, and since younger women are more accustomed to younger men, they’re more acclimated to higher-drama relationships. Quality of Sex – I’m going to surprise many people here, and piss off a lot of women, since Societal Programming says that older women are better in bed.
It’s true that older women are more comfortable and understanding of their own bodies during sex than younger women, but are they than younger women?
Of course you could follow a more traditional, beta male type of dating, where you have five or more dates before you have sex (ugh, kill me), and thus get more relationships with older women, but getting to sex slowly like that isn’t what this blog or my books are about. Older women, even those who are single mothers, tend to be more reliable and less flaky.
Other Pro’s and Con’s With all that being said, here are a list of other pro’s and con’s. Granted, all women are flakey to some degree (it’s core part of being female), but the flaky factor drops significantly when a women gets over age 30 and again when she gets over age 35.
There’s a light and eagerness in younger women’s eyes during sex that frankly, most older women don’t have.
The second woman is robotic with dead eyes.) You could argue that some younger women are faking this enthusiasm during sex, and maybe under certain scenarios they are, but that reinforces my point; it shows they care more about your experience than an older woman who refuses to show any enthusiasm, fake or otherwise.
All I can go from is my own experience, as well as the experience of the men I’ve communicated about this topic over many years.
I’ve slept with a lot of older women and younger women, and I have to say that in general (and again, there are many exceptions), less picky.
VYW are a lot of fun, but god damn, the constant flaking, forgetting, rescheduling, emergencies and cancelling gets extremely irritating, particularly when you’re a busy guy juggling work, family, multiple women, Mission, etc. Easy Compliance – Younger women win here, big time.
Younger women are more likely to go along with any agenda you set for them than older women, who tend to be strongly opinionated and set in their ways.