Who understands your situation better than a man who is living it? Trust me, these guys who say they love having your kids around are just being polite, or manipulative.They may like your kids, and they may like you - but the idea of always playing fourth banana to your kids in the long term will scare all but the most needy and unattractive men away from you.As a society, we’ve come to welcome non-traditional family units.
We see it in celebrity culture – the Kardashian/Jenner clan and Will Smith’s family for instance.You should stipulate in your dating profile (assuming you use online dating) that you only date men who already have kids.No matter how hot you are, you are much less attractive because you have 3 kids. Your job is to make yourself as attractive as possible despite the fact that you have three kids.You have to make the most of whatever time you do have.There’s also the chance that you’ll be forced to interact with the dreaded ex.
For example, if one of the biological parents tends to be a harsher disciplinarian, as a stepparent, you become the family’s glue. One thing I learned in dealing with a single mom is that even when a child isn’t yours, they have a profound effect on who you become as a man.