At first you may be flattered and think that the first signs of control in your relationship are cute. Many women have had their lives turned upside down by a controlling man.
And you end up resenting the feelings you feel knowing deep down they are insecure.By then you are "hooked" and they believe that they have you exactly where they want you.You can't change them and so, unbelievably, a lot of women simply give them their way.When they leave you by email and then call back and say it was a mistake and you give them one more chance and then the calls become none existant.You end the relationship but they have to get the last word by saying they actually found someone else and fell inlove from first sight. Luckily they come across someone like me that understands their behaviour a whole lot better than them.
For example, you come from the ladies after freshening up with a little more lip stick and blush, only to return to the controlling person who greets you with a lukewarm comment: "Had a good make-up session? I walked after that length of time with 2 suitcases after giving a life time of building a home paying for it and everything else.